Lily? Sweetie? Do You Need to Talk?
Lily Phillips recently revealed that she was grilled by U.S. Immigration and Customs for her intention to complete her “1,000 Dongs in a Day” sex stunt while on U.S. soil. Her disappointment over the incident—along with several other occurrences—has mental health experts concerned about the emotional well-being of the OnlyFans star. Is her intention to have sex with 1,000 people in one day really about ambition and self-expression, or is it a cry for intervention and help?
In a mad dash to the bottom of the barrel, Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue—also an OnlyFans star—have been competing with one another to break the world record for the most sexual encounters in a day by engaging with 1,000+ people in 24 hours or less. Well, Bonnie Blue won that particular race by having sexual encounters with 1,057 men in 12 hours in an almost mechanical process. Phillips had famously been broadcasting that she planned to go for the record, but Blue says it was her idea first. How is this the argument being debated in public? Anyway, Lily’s response to Bonnie beating her to the record-breaking doinking session has been to insist that she’s still going to have sexual encounters with 1,000+ men in a day, and she’ll be breaking the record for most anal sex encounters in a day. Girl. Honey. What are you thinking?
It’s no grand secret that both Blue and Phillips foster scandal to keep their names in the tabloids and their subscription numbers climbing ever higher. That said, both insist that they find these kinds of mass sex events empowering, almost viewing them as performance art. Frankly, when it comes to Phillips, most people aren’t buying it. After her first mass sex stunt, where she was the only vagina-bearer in the room last fall, Phillips broke down in tears while describing the dissociation she experienced for the majority of the 14-hour event, in which she had sex with 101 men. She doubled down on her intention to break the world record after that recording went viral, and then proceeded to “train” by staging more and more mass sex events. Phillips also revealed that she was unaware she was contracting and spreading STDs by having unprotected oral sex with partners whose STD-positive status she was completely unaware of. She tested positive for a gnarly cocktail of sexually transmitted diseases, and even her eyes were visibly infected from allowing men who were positive for STDs to ejaculate on her face. All that, and she’s still hell-bent on completing the stunt.
Some of her fans are still cheering her on in her quest, while others are begging her to seek out a mental health professional and sort out her brain a bit. Whatever side of the camp you fall on, it’s clear that Phillips is walking a wobbly tightrope between attention-seeking for her business and a genuine cry for help in getting out of the cycle she’s trapped herself in.
Given that OnlyFans is her primary source of income, and she’s decided to hang her hat on sex stunts, it makes sense that she’s concerned about making sure her name stays hot in the press. But how far is too far? Sex workers face higher scrutiny in society even without resorting to the extreme measures Phillips is taking, so where do we draw the line between sex workers who are protected and empowered, and social media stunts that need to slow their roll? Regardless of whether or not you respect sex workers—and you should, this is 2025—the pressure to outdo one another, out-shock the captive social media audience, and contract viral illnesses while trying to… well, go viral… it’s not healthy, either physically or mentally.
Lily has an impressive hustle, but at what cost? Trying to break records shouldn’t mean that you break yourself. Everyone benefits from checking in regularly with a licensed therapist from time to time. Lily, next time you need to feel special, might we recommend a spa day instead? Those face creams don’t give you syphilis of the eyeballs, and you’ll come out of the experience feeling much more relaxed than you were after your latest sex marathon.
